Vulnerable Share + My Story

At my lowest point, I was parked on the shoulder of the Bay Bridge on-ramp, frozen. I could see home right there on the other side. but I couldn’t make myself cross that damn bridge. Looking back this was a metaphor for my life.

I wasn’t crying because of traffic.
I wasn’t panicking about directions.
I was stuck between the life I had built and the one I hadn’t yet dared to claim.

That day, I sat in my car for four hours. teary-eyed, disoriented, and unable to override what my body already knew. I was living out of alignment.

I had just finished filming my first on-camera jewelry-making course with a major production company in San Francisco. I pushed through every bit of resistance to get there. Head cold, fatigue, and a strung out nervous system. Still, I showed up. Smiled on cue. Took direction. Performed.

I had been performing for others for years. Ignoring my souls truth.

They wanted me to “be more Tiffany.” More animated. More sparkly. More on-brand. To wear pink.
Only… that wasn’t me. That was more on brand for them. In fact I had a massive phobia of being on camera. Yet I performed as the version of me that had learned to succeed by contorting. By people-pleasing. By proving.

By 34, I had done everything "right":
Straight-A student.
Manager by 24.
Six-figure jewelry brand.
Multiple businesses.

And yet, I constantly felt behind. Like no matter how much I did, it still wasn’t enough. Like I wasn’t enough. I now call this Not Enoughness Syndrome. The chronic hustle to earn worthiness that no achievement can satisfy.

The truth?
It wasn’t just stress. It wasn’t just anxiety.
It was my soul screaming for something deeper. For alignment. For truth. For clarity.

My life and business looked great on paper. They were no longer rooted in who I really was. I was creating from survival mode instead of abundance.

My body was done pretending.

So I stopped chasing quick fixes and started chasing truth.
I dove deep into the science of the nervous system and the subconscious mind. I trained in yoga, hypnotherapy, somatic healing, NLP, trauma work, and identity transformation. I rebuilt myself. Not from hustle, but from healing and truth.

I left the city. I closed my Etsy shop and stop creating jewelry for production.
I got fiercely protective of my energy.
I created a life and business that actually feel good to live in.

And that’s how The Identity Shift Method™ was born. A powerful 90-day transformational experience for high-achieving women who are ready to stop self-sabotaging and start living from the inside out.

This isn’t about “thinking positive” or doing more.
It’s about rewiring the patterns beneath the pressure.
Regulating your nervous system so you feel safe in your own success.
Reconnecting you with the version of you who already knows how to lead, live, and love with clarity and calm.

I created this because I know what it’s like to look successful on the outside… while quietly unraveling inside.
I also know what it’s like to come out the other side.

You’re not stuck. You’re in transition.

The woman you’re becoming?
She’s already inside of you.

Let’s bring her to the surface.